Hispanic Catholic · 5 minutes · Photographable moment
Arras — 13 unity coins
The ritual
- The best man or a family member presents a small box or plate containing 13 coins to the priest.
- The priest blesses the coins.
- The groom takes the coins and pours them into the bride's cupped hands, or hands them to her.
- In some traditions, the bride then hands them back — signifying mutual sharing.
- The coins are set aside on the altar.
The meaning
The thirteen coins represent Christ and the twelve apostles. The gift symbolizes the groom's promise to share all he has with the bride and to provide for their prosperity together. In some traditions, the bride handing them back is a symbol of mutual contribution — both partners bring resources into the marriage.
Cultural origins
Spanish and Latin American Catholic tradition. The Mexican form is on the Mexican arras guide. Common in Mexican, Puerto Rican, Dominican, Colombian, Filipino, and other Hispanic-heritage Catholic weddings. Origins go back to medieval Spain and possibly earlier Moorish traditions.
Where it appears
Optional in Catholic ceremonies, but standard in most Hispanic Catholic weddings. It's usually included after the ring exchange, before the nuptial blessing.
Photography
Positioning
- 45 degrees to the couple, close enough for tight hands.
- Wide first: priest, couple, coins visible.
- Tight second: the coins in the groom's hand, the bride's cupped hands, the transfer.
Key shots
- The priest blessing the coins
- The groom pouring the coins into the bride's hands
- Close-up on the coins themselves (they're often ornate)
- Both faces during the exchange
- The bride's expression as she receives them
Variations by rite and cultural family
Roman Rite and Eastern Catholic parishes
Most U.S. weddings follow the Roman Rite Order of Celebrating Matrimony; Byzantine or Maronite couples may use different processional and blessing texts while still celebrating sacramental marriage. USCCB marriage prep materials describe Roman Rite norms.
Source: USCCB — Marriage
Italian, Mexican, and Filipino American parishes
Latino families may add arras and lazo; Filipino couples may request cord and veil within a Roman Rite Mass. Confirm with the celebrant whether these happen during the Liturgy of the Word or after the exchange of consent.
Nuptial Mass versus ceremony without Mass
Communion lengthens photography needs: you need coverage of the couple at the altar, congregational communion lines, and the nuptial blessing placement. A 45-minute without-Mass preset can still run 55 minutes with a long homily.
How families adapt Arras Unity Coins today
Contemporary couples often shorten Arras Unity Coins for venue clocks while keeping the element that matters to elders — usually the blessing, exchange, or visible symbol rather than every optional verse. Destination weddings may move the ritual earlier in the day for heat or light, which changes where shadows fall in your frames. Hybrid ceremonies blend English explanations for guests who do not share the family language; plan extra wide shots when the officiant or elder narrates for the room. Always confirm with the planner whether children or wedding party members participate, because a last-minute addition changes spacing and focus priority for both photographers.
Common questions
What kind of coins are used?
Traditionally gold, either real or plated. Modern couples use decorative wedding-specific arras sets — thirteen coins in a small ornate box, purchased for the wedding.
Do the coins have real value?
Symbolic mostly. Some couples use antique gold coins from family; others use inexpensive decorative sets. Either is valid.
Can non-Hispanic couples include arras?
Yes. It's a beautiful tradition and any Catholic couple can request it. Ask the priest.
Where does the number thirteen come from?
Christ plus the twelve apostles is the most common explanation. Older sources suggest it represents completeness or abundance.
Field notes from George
Thirteen coins pour from a box or tray — I focus on the groom’s hand tipping coins into the bride’s hands, then wide to include the priest blessing. Latino families sometimes add a sponsor for each side; track who holds the box.
Second shooters capture padrinos reactions — arras often triggers tears in the front row.
Before Arras Unity Coins begins, confirm with the planner and officiant where photographers may stand, whether flash is permitted, and how long the block is expected to run. Build that answer into the shared timeline so the second shooter knows when to stay on the couple versus roaming for guest reactions. If the venue shifts this moment outdoors, re-check wind, sun direction, and guest sightlines ten minutes prior — couples rarely announce last-minute layout changes over mic.
For album flow, aim for three usable frames: an establishing wide that shows the full ritual space, a mid shot that includes the couple and officiant or elder, and a tight detail that signals the tradition (hands, ritual object, or symbolic movement). Capture each layer before the moment peaks so you are not changing lenses during the emotional apex. Debrief with the second shooter afterward about which angle produced the cleanest sightlines — reuse that setup if the same family hosts a sibling wedding later in the season.
Photographer's note
Before arras unity coins begins, walk the space with the person who is actually leading it — officiant, elder, or family member. Ask where photographers may stand, whether flash or a continuous light is welcome, and which word or gesture marks the start and the end. The arras are thirteen coins, poured between the couple’s hands, often just after the rings and alongside the lazo. A sponsor or parent may hold the box. Put that answer on the shared timeline so a second shooter knows whether to stay on the couple or cover the room. If the venue moves the block outdoors at the last minute, re-check wind, sun direction, and guest sightlines with enough time to change position. Leave a five-minute buffer; these moments run long when a reading, song, or blessing is added without warning.
For the album, plan three frames before the peak: a wide that shows the room and who is leading, a mid shot of the couple with that person, and a tight detail of the object or gesture guests will recognize later. Coins spill. Ask the coordinator which hand receives them and shoot from the side that shows the pour, not the back of the giver’s head. One tight frame of the coins in cupped hands is the frame albums use. Do not change lenses at the emotional peak. After the recessional or the toast, note which angle stayed clear of relatives, lecterns, and phone screens so the same family can reuse it. Confirm name spellings if the couple will caption the frame, and tell the planner when you are stepping out so the next block is not waiting on a photographer who is still in the aisle.
Sources
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About this guide
The timing, positioning, and photography notes on this page come from George's own arras unity coinswedding coverage over a 15-year career. Aisle & Time is the wedding-day system he built and refined across hundreds of weddings before retiring from active shooting in 2025. What you're reading is that system, in guide form.
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Sources cited on this page
- Primary: George Stoff's field experience across hundreds of weddings (Central Islip, New York and New York tri-state area, 2008–2025)
- Product: Aisle & Time tradition library (version 2026.09)
- Cross-reference: USCCB — Marriage & Family Life Ministries
- Cross-reference: For Your Marriage — USCCB
See the full sources list for every reference we cite across the tradition library.
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Disclaimer
Traditions vary by community, family, and officiant. Always confirm the specific practice with your officiant, family, and vendors. This guide reflects common practice as modeled inside the Aisle & Time product — not doctrine, not religious authority, not a substitute for a real conversation with the people leading your ceremony.